"Sister Suffragette" Mary Poppins

"Womankind arise!" This always brightens my day.

International Women's Day

International Women’s Day (IWD) is celebrated globally on March 8th to celebrate women’s accomplishments but also to remember the battles we have fought for rights. These days many young women take for granted what the second wave of feminism achieved in improving equality.

They may think that women’s rights have been won. We can vote right? Many of us can get an education, we can work in careers that were formerly reserved for men, we can get divorced and own property. But that’s only the tip of the iceberg.

Think about the fact that in 2009, women still aren’t paid for equal work of equal value in the workplace. Think about the glass ceiling that still exists in jobs where motherhood ultimately devalues women’s contributions on the workplace. If a father goes to pick up their sick child he’s a saint. If a mother does it, it’s commonplace, hardly noteworthy, or even frowned upon as negligence of one’s job. In terms of reproductive control we still face obstacles.

Don’t forget that in Canada there is still conflict over a woman’s right to autonomy over her body. On March 5th, 2008 the “Unborn Victims of Crime Act” passed second reading in Parliament (Bill C-484). This would amend the criminal code and lay separate charges in the death of a fetus when a pregnant woman is attacked. This is a slippery slope towards criminalizing abortion, and giving personhood rights to fetus’, which infringes on women’s rights, as outlined in the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms.

In this day and age, our bodies are still not our own. And if you think about women’s rights globally, it seems there is a steep hill to climb. If we look outside our own privileges, whether they are based on class, race, ability, sexual orientation or religion, the world isn’t as rosy and equal as we thought it was.

IWD is a time to remember our past, but also to celebrate what we have done, and work towards future growth. There are different Women’s Day themes, marches and gatherings all over the world on Saturday, and in Canada the theme of 2009 is: “Strong Leadership. Strong Women. Strong World: Equality.” Watch this video for our opinions.

In Toronto there will be a Rally at the OISE Auditorium 252 Bloor St. (St. George Subway Station) at 11 a.m. with speakers and performers to hear before the march. The theme of the rally is "The Rising of the Women is the Rising of Us All !"

Thousands of women’s groups and unions will join together, marching to Ryerson University, where the IWD Fair will be held from 3-5 p.m. in the Student Centre (55 Gould St.).

So come out if you want to rally for women’s rights, because justice for all women is something that we can work for, instead of burying our heads in the sand. It’s as simple as believing in equality for all people.

The "F" Word

The “F” word or the “F” bomb. If you drop this loaded word in public it can very possibly result in a nasty reaction. It’s a word of power. A word of strength, equality and respect. It’s a word that can be used for good, a word that educates, but it can also be misinterpreted. It should be a word that brings us together, but unfortunately it can result in a divide of understanding. The word is feminism.

Today I happened to hear a lot of women articulate what the word feminism meant to them, and it really opened my eyes to the diverse array of experiences and meanings this word encapsulates for each individual.
Sadly, many people today (especially young people) regard this term as a relic of the past. Society has turned feminism into the new “F” word. “Didn’t they burn bras?” people will enquire. “They’re man-haters or dykes,” is another crude, uneducated response. These are typical reactions, and not even the worst. If someone actually had the nerve to say, “Feminists just need a good fuck,” within earshot of me I would feel the need to blatantly express my offence, whether they claimed to be joking or not.

Feminism has been warped into a negative stereotype. People either don’t believe it is necessary, or they label it as something threatening, bitchy, or anti-male. If you really take a good look around at the world, and I say world because women’s rights is a global issue, not just a North American one, then you will see that we are not yet equal. But it can be hard for some people to see beyond their white, middle class, privileged, democratic bubble, living in a place like Canada or the United States.

The reality is that despite living in a democratic country, equality still doesn’t exist for all women: For women who immigrated from another country, who don’t speak english as their first language, who are single mothers, who don’t have access to safe, legal abortions, who are not provided with free, adequate sexual education, who are denied the use of birth control, Plan B, or other safe-sex options, who don’t look Caucasian, who are denied jobs based on their gender/race or appearance, who are not paid the same as men for work of equal value, who are not of a heterosexual orientation, who are not able-bodied, who support a family while working a full-time, minimum wage job, who are below the poverty line, who are oppressed due to religious and cultural family traditions, who have been verbally assaulted on the streets or transit system, who have been sexually, emotionally, financially and spiritually abused, who don’t feel safe walking alone at night, who were discouraged from pursuing jobs predominantly filled by men, who feel fat every time they look at an advertisement, who are told by the media that they need to constantly strive to fit the “beauty” standard, who are encouraged to enhance their bodies through plastic surgery, who are told that once they get wrinkles and grey hairs they can no longer be sexy or beautiful, who are made to believe that if they sleep with multiple sexual partners they are a slut, and if they refuse they are a frigid prude, who feel pressured to try every acne cream, weight loss pill and lip plumper on the market, who are forced to fill the domestic role in their household, who encounter a glass ceiling in workplace promotions, who work long hours in unsafe conditions with no benefits, who are called bitch, cunt, or whore, degradingly based on gender, and who encounter sexist stereotypes based solely on their looks or background.
For all these women and many more, we are not treated as equals. Feminism has come a long way in fighting for women’s rights, but there are still many areas that need to improve in order for women to truly have control over their bodies, sexuality, safety, jobs, education and social encounters. The unjust experiences that women endure don’t cease to exist outside your city, province, or country. They connect us all, and should carry the same significance no matter where they occur.

To me, being a feminist means feeling empowered in your womanhood, in your own beauty, worth, and intelligence without basing your value on the traditional standards of femininity that we may have grown up with. For me feminism is about having control over your reproductive health, sexual expression and your body.
It’s about knowing that you don’t have to model the projected “norm” in society in order to be considered a woman. You needn’t feel like you have to paint your nails, shave your armpits, pluck your eyebrows, scrub toilets on a regular basis, follow all the latest fashion trends, cook a 4 course meal flawlessly, single-handedly raise your children, or please your man in bed with 10 sexy techniques, unless that’s what you want to do. Feminism is about being your own person, living by your own standards and realizing that you are not bound by the female gender norms created by society.

The word also doesn’t exclude men, in my opinion. If a man stands behind women’s rights, and advocates actively for equality through thoughts, words or actions then I believe he is a feminist. Regardless of having privilege or not, there are men who aren’t ashamed to call themselves a feminist, and I think that’s a very admirable thing that shouldn’t be discouraged by making feminism a gender exclusive term. There’s nothing that can be gained by pushing people away from a positive belief, only something to be lost.
Feminism means something different to everyone, whether you classify yourself as a liberal, radical, marxist, something undefined or in between the spectrums. The word encompasses a unique set of core values and beliefs for each individual. It could sum up your entire personality or only represent one part of the way you see yourself. Either way, the next time you hear feminism being referred to as the “F” word, consider how it is expressed in your thoughts, values or actions. How do you define it?